昨天在和朋友聊“无条件的爱”，突然有了一些想法。
我是相信无条件的爱的。也就是说，我希望我亲密的朋友和我的伴侣并不是因为我可以为Ta做什么而爱我，而是爱我这个人。我也希望自己可以用这样的爱去爱我身边的人。
同时，我相信“有条件的不爱”。也就是说，如果一个人再三让我难受，超过了我能接受的边界，那Ta无论是有意还是无意，能控制还是不能控制，我都会有意识地去暂停或控制我对这个人的爱。我也能接受如果我在无意间伤害了身边的人，超过了Ta能接受的边界，那Ta决定不再爱我/不再那么爱我这个事实。 source
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