昨天在和朋友聊“无条件的爱”，突然有了一些想法。
我是相信无条件的爱的。也就是说，我希望我亲密的朋友和我的伴侣并不是因为我可以为Ta做什么而爱我，而是爱我这个人。我也希望自己可以用这样的爱去爱我身边的人。
同时，我相信“有条件的不爱”。也就是说，如果一个人再三让我难受，超过了我能接受的边界，那Ta无论是有意还是无意，能控制还是不能控制，我都会有意识地去暂停或控制我对这个人的爱。我也能接受如果我在无意间伤害了身边的人，超过了Ta能接受的边界，那Ta决定不再爱我/不再那么爱我这个事实。 source
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In general, many financial experts support their clients’ desire to buy cryptocurrency, but they don’t recommend it unless clients express interest. “The biggest concern for us is if someone wants to invest in crypto and the investment they choose doesn’t do well, and then all of a sudden they can’t send their kids to college,” says Ian Harvey, a certified financial planner (CFP) in New York City. “Then it wasn’t worth the risk.” The speculative nature of cryptocurrency leads some planners to recommend it for clients’ “side” investments. “Some call it a Vegas account,” says Scott Hammel, a CFP in Dallas. “Let’s keep this away from our real long-term perspective, make sure it doesn’t become too large a portion of your portfolio.” In a very real sense, Bitcoin is like a single stock, and advisors wouldn’t recommend putting a sizable part of your portfolio into any one company. At most, planners suggest putting no more than 1% to 10% into Bitcoin if you’re passionate about it. “If it was one stock, you would never allocate any significant portion of your portfolio to it,” Hammel says.
The lead from Wall Street offers little clarity as the major averages opened lower on Friday and then bounced back and forth across the unchanged line, finally finishing mixed and little changed.The Dow added 33.18 points or 0.10 percent to finish at 34,798.00, while the NASDAQ eased 4.54 points or 0.03 percent to close at 15,047.70 and the S&P 500 rose 6.50 points or 0.15 percent to end at 4,455.48. For the week, the Dow rose 0.6 percent, the NASDAQ added 0.1 percent and the S&P gained 0.5 percent.The lackluster performance on Wall Street came on uncertainty about the outlook for the markets following recent volatility.
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